Relationship works with efforts from both the partners. Sometimes, even though there is love and care for the partner, situations and emotions raise a lot of questions about the relationship progression. Find the most common queries answered by our Relationship Expert below.
I feel a connection
Feeling connection with a partner and reading thoughts may feel you giddy and fall head over heels with the other person. Beware, all connections don’t last a lifetime, keeping hopes very up in initial stages of a relationship may leave deep scar later. So keep calm, reading thoughts and connection happens with friends too, don’t jump too early, take it slow and steady.
My partner don’t communicate and respond back
Its a serious red flag in a relationship, time to evaluate the bonding between the couple. If a partner ignores other means there is a clash in expectations, which needs to be discussed properly and a decision should be made to stay or leave. If there is no mutual respect and communication between partners it is better to break up at the earliest than harbouring regrets for a long time.
We keep arguing
People keep talking what they know, what they think correct, they don’t give the breathing space to others, they need to stop, take a break, have a walk and come back and should let others to speak and communicate.
Initial spark is missing
Everything will be hunkydory in the initial stages of relationship as people are in their best behaviour usually but as relationship progresses the masks gets peeled off and people see the actual person. They tend to observe traits which the other may or may not appreciate and accept much. This phase is true test of relationship, how much each can compromise and accept other. They should do more activities and visit different places to create more memories and build a bond which may bring them closer further and reignited the spark.
Keeps pushing for physical intimacy
You should evaluate your boundaries and make a decision. Some relationships fizzle out after sexual intimacy, it depends on the nature of the person, some become protective of the partner and some become laidback. This is the gamble plays, people and situations are unpredictable, be prepared.
My partner is stubborn
Most of the issues in a relationship is caused when people are rigid and adamant to see the viewpoint of others. They believe what they think is correct, they fail to see others view point resulting in lose of peace and trust in a relationship. It will be a difficult situation going forward further, it may need heartfelt discussions to fix issues or if discussion is not possible, councelling might be necessary.
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